tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5387778566526841808.post3703417667566364825..comments2024-03-28T09:17:49.821-05:00Comments on Bates Family Blog: Bates Updates and Pictures | Gil and Kelly | 19 Kids | Bringing Up Bates | UP TV: Jadon's HomecomingLily and Elliehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00941253435533935093noreply@blogger.comBlogger46125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5387778566526841808.post-2742231349983912602021-06-24T14:48:42.647-05:002021-06-24T14:48:42.647-05:00They initially announced his name as Jayden while ...They initially announced his name as Jayden while Whitney was pregnant, but they ended up deciding on Jadon. <br /><br />Lily and EllieLily and Elliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00941253435533935093noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5387778566526841808.post-22876139866778541802021-06-24T10:12:27.702-05:002021-06-24T10:12:27.702-05:00Jaden's name is spelled JADEN. Not Jadon.Jaden's name is spelled JADEN. Not Jadon. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5387778566526841808.post-24054599360426508412021-06-23T06:53:45.689-05:002021-06-23T06:53:45.689-05:00Some of these comments, I mean really?!!! A lot of...Some of these comments, I mean really?!!! A lot of strange people out in LaLa land! SallyVhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11404461495297911588noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5387778566526841808.post-84005668604199462122021-06-21T21:16:27.662-05:002021-06-21T21:16:27.662-05:007:25, no one said that the siblings have to have b...7:25, no one said that the siblings have to have big jobs. Little kids generally LIKE helping out with little things like getting a diaper. When you praise them for being a good helper, you can see the joy in their faces. They don't think of it as a little thing. That is just the jaded opinion of an adult. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5387778566526841808.post-85648211463478964022021-06-21T09:33:18.724-05:002021-06-21T09:33:18.724-05:00I think any parent will tell you that you can'...I think any parent will tell you that you can't force your kids to stop having basic human emotions! The best you can do is to guide them on how to deal with those feelings that can bring us down, have a negative impact on our behaviors and general sense of well-being. Scolding and reprimanding is counter-productive, IMO.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5387778566526841808.post-66003415398295030602021-06-21T09:33:17.838-05:002021-06-21T09:33:17.838-05:00Now we're all just waiting on Tori and Charlot...Now we're all just waiting on Tori and Charlotte Raine!<br /><br />Love your fam!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5387778566526841808.post-87158635101791042052021-06-21T09:27:05.919-05:002021-06-21T09:27:05.919-05:00How silly. Of course kids can have feelings, which...How silly. Of course kids can have feelings, which turn into teachable opportunities on how to deal with those unhealthy feelings.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5387778566526841808.post-45024087038600805062021-06-20T17:05:46.851-05:002021-06-20T17:05:46.851-05:00Truthie@3:57 I don't think the OP was suggest...Truthie@3:57 I don't think the OP was suggesting that jealousy be praised or encouraged, but rather pointing out that it is unrealistic to expect every sibling will be jumping for joy when a new baby is brought home. It's not unusual that a child might feel left out and envious. I don't think reprimanding them is a solution for having basic human emotions- that can lead to more resentment. I agree they need to be taught how to deal with jealousy, as well as any negative feelings, because those feelings will come again. Some kids may just need more time to adjust to a new situation and the parents need to be ready with love and understanding, not scolding or admonishment. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5387778566526841808.post-29595382827736869882021-06-20T12:35:57.089-05:002021-06-20T12:35:57.089-05:00Congratulations Zach, Whitney, Bradley, Kaci, and ...Congratulations Zach, Whitney, Bradley, Kaci, and Khloe! So thankful that Jadon is out of the NICU now and doing well. Your whole family has been in my prayers and they were answered! What will the arrangement be? Jadon and Bradley will share a room like Kaci and Khloe do, right? I am sure Jadon will keep doing well, I can't wait to see blog posts about the new family of 6!<br /><br />Zach, Whitney, Bradley, Kaci, Khloe, and Jadon, God Bless! <br /><br />Love your Family!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5387778566526841808.post-38387191219669622592021-06-20T12:30:25.090-05:002021-06-20T12:30:25.090-05:00Sorry, meant brother. Don't know what happened...Sorry, meant brother. Don't know what happened. LOL :DAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5387778566526841808.post-7301689608535367482021-06-20T12:30:17.902-05:002021-06-20T12:30:17.902-05:00Sorry, meant brother. Don't know what happened...Sorry, meant brother. Don't know what happened. LOL :DAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06520019467471994772noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5387778566526841808.post-84777367827639491502021-06-20T11:26:22.956-05:002021-06-20T11:26:22.956-05:00Would Khloe be allowed to be jealous? To tantrum? ...Would Khloe be allowed to be jealous? To tantrum? To wish the baby would go away? Are these feelings allowed? Can Bradley be jealous he's not the only boy any longer?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5387778566526841808.post-41855911620811559812021-06-19T21:34:04.622-05:002021-06-19T21:34:04.622-05:00I’m sure they do adore their new little brother. B...I’m sure they do adore their new little brother. Bradley (6) and Kaci (5) aren’t toddlers anymore. While young children can still have little moments of jealously it’s not like a toddler. As for Khloe (1 1/2) She probably doesn’t understand what is going on as Bradley and Kaci do. I’m sure Whitney will include each of them with helping take care of Jadon so they feel they’re helping Mama out and feel important. Children need to be taught that Mama has to help baby more than she helps you because baby can’t do what you can do and they need caring for more because their not old enough yet to help take care of themselves. It’s also important to let your older child (s) know that you love them exactly the same as you love baby and you adore both of them just the same. 😊 Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5387778566526841808.post-36685429899398890482021-06-19T21:23:30.157-05:002021-06-19T21:23:30.157-05:00I think your getting Zach and Whitney mixed up wit...I think your getting Zach and Whitney mixed up with Josie and Kelton. Zach and Whitney have a little boy named Jadon and Josie and Kelton have a little girl named Hazel. <br /><br />Zach and Whitney:<br />Bradley<br />Kaci <br />Khloe <br />Jadon <br /><br />Josie and Kelton:<br />Willow<br />Hazel<br /><br />Hope this clears the confusion. 😊<br /><br />God Bless!! Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5387778566526841808.post-3342439198225715952021-06-19T21:20:51.351-05:002021-06-19T21:20:51.351-05:00Yes, hard to believe that sweet Kaci Lynn will be...Yes, hard to believe that sweet Kaci Lynn will be 5 on Sunday! She reminds me so much of Whitney.I’ve watched all the BGB from newborn to become independent children they do a wonderful job raising them. Lovely photo. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5387778566526841808.post-59091413766042797272021-06-19T21:17:36.101-05:002021-06-19T21:17:36.101-05:00Yes, that’s your opinion but it’s their baby and w...Yes, that’s your opinion but it’s their baby and whatever they feel comfortable with doing if it’s having people over visiting or just having their little family all together for a bit. Whatever they feel is best!! Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5387778566526841808.post-82936809848003745072021-06-19T21:15:47.718-05:002021-06-19T21:15:47.718-05:00Yes, Zach and Whitney have said on BUB that Bradle...Yes, Zach and Whitney have said on BUB that Bradley and Jadon will eventually share a room when he’s old enough too. Just like Kaci and Khloe that are sharing a room. May the Lord watch over this little family and their precious baby boy. Also praying for Josie, Kelton, little Willow and baby Hazel. Praying Hazel will be sent home without any issues and stays healthy. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5387778566526841808.post-68568005868128476812021-06-19T19:25:13.036-05:002021-06-19T19:25:13.036-05:00Not to much any of the kids can do to help really....Not to much any of the kids can do to help really. Get a diaper or bottle. Of course they are adoring him its like a new toy toy . Pay attention get bored move onto something else. Lets be honest here.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5387778566526841808.post-78683472235226487042021-06-19T19:11:12.844-05:002021-06-19T19:11:12.844-05:00They really do love little Jaden a lot. I don’t th...They really do love little Jaden a lot. I don’t think the older two are jealous in the least. They really have the right idea of loving people. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5387778566526841808.post-27235518035255614032021-06-19T16:56:11.089-05:002021-06-19T16:56:11.089-05:00You just need to love on your toddlers and talk to...You just need to love on your toddlers and talk to them about them being able to help and love their new sibling and then give them little ways to "help", which makes them feel important. My littles did adore their younger siblings, and my teen boys still have a soft spot for babies. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5387778566526841808.post-78920152113629525312021-06-19T15:57:48.749-05:002021-06-19T15:57:48.749-05:00They have shown they are adoring him.
Children n...They have shown they are adoring him. <br /><br />Children need to be taught how to share and to deal with jealous feeling not praised or encouraged in it in the name of “their truth” Truthiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05341585345330151579noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5387778566526841808.post-57487350772583808112021-06-19T15:55:00.530-05:002021-06-19T15:55:00.530-05:00Lovely photo of a beautiful and loving family.
...Lovely photo of a beautiful and loving family.<br /> Marilyn,Joan and Marion<br /> Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5387778566526841808.post-33960576934408126452021-06-19T15:27:34.951-05:002021-06-19T15:27:34.951-05:00No vying for mom's attention, the kids are exc...No vying for mom's attention, the kids are excited and enjoying the experience and mom will include them with everything she does with the baby, they are the type of kids that enjoy helping out, they were like that when Khloe was born too, it's a fun experience with them, Whitney is a great mom and knows how to teach her children love for the baby,they see helping out as an act of love not a chore, plus babies sleep a lot she can use that time to spend quality time with the other children. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5387778566526841808.post-40940644558712740622021-06-19T15:20:05.690-05:002021-06-19T15:20:05.690-05:00And Kasi's birthday today Saturday, and with t...And Kasi's birthday today Saturday, and with the excitement of a new baby in the house they'll have lots of fun especially with all the company from so many family and friends coming to visit to meet the new baby, happy birthday kasi!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5387778566526841808.post-32138045038744652772021-06-19T13:19:29.381-05:002021-06-19T13:19:29.381-05:00You must be confused. It's a boy,not a girl.You must be confused. It's a boy,not a girl.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com